Many people suffer loneliness across the globe; they sit beside their window and feel the loneliness without realizing countless people roaring in front of them. Everyone seeks a good companion to share their feelings; to gain some confidence and to achieve their goals. But somehow they fail to realize how they can be a good companion to someone else. Anyway, good companion is must for achieving some great things. But how many of us really got at least anyone like that. Though someone can play good part in our life we can’t be so sure we will get someone like that in future; at the same time if they turn down after some time it’ll affect us more worst. It’s a fact that people may get changed over some period.

So it’s important that we must have our own companion, who can recognize us and can motivate us whenever we need. You need not search him; he’s hiding inside yourself. You need a self-Motivation to bring himself to life. Self- Motivation is like a tool that shapes our victory with our own hand. To achieve something; you must believe yourself. From the bottom of your heart, you should say that “I can do”. Self-confidence plays major role in order to achieve anything, but self-motivation is a key to explore your self-confidence. And it’s a booster which can fill our self whenever we feel empty. Self-confidence over something can be vary, we don’t feel same way all the time for anything. But whenever we feel down; we need some motivation to fill the gap in our path of victory; in these circumstances self-motivation can be handy.

To motivate our self, we can do many things which works for us. Every person use different tactics to feel Motivated, it need not to be the same for everyone. But generally we can do some things which works commonly to anyone. You can see some inspirational films or hear some energetic music. If you are the person who likes to read; then you can read some motivational books and biographies. You can remember your best days or best achievements in your life, you can also foresee your good future. Never compare yourself to anyone, it’ll badly affect your confidence. Have a role model but be yourself and achieve your Self-Identity. Never let anyone to say, you can’t do something. Feel strong and work hard.

Arun is a web developer and freelance technical writer
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